Archive for April, 2010

Sometimes when things gets rough, we lose track of the good things in life. Our focus seem to divert to that one thing that’s going wrong, and even worse when it becomes magnified.  It’s as if everything in the world just plain sucks. Feelings of sadness or even anger takes over. Just thinking about it becomes overwhelming. You just become lost and you ask yourself… wtf is going on and why is this happening to me?

When shit happens or things fall in the dumps, sure I may whine and cry about it (it’s part of the whole dealing with it), but once I pulled myself together, I sit back and think about it. I have a tendency to think about things a lot, but it helps when it comes to redirecting my focus. I just kinda need to talk t myself about it.

Cheesy as it sounds, but one thing I always do is putting things in perspective. There are other people who are worse off than I am and this is merely a bump on the road. And five years from now this will be insignificant.

Ok, maybe comparing your life to someone else who’s worse off than you is a bit cruel, but it really helps. It could be a lot worse than it is, but it’s really not. So then, deal with it or fix it and move on. If it didn’t work out, there’s always a reason behind it.

Right now, my mind is a big clutter. So many thoughts just bombarding my head. Not sure if it’s a good or a bad thing. I’m just a bit lost in my thoughts trying to put things in perspective.


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